Ten years?
Has it really been ten years since I walked across that stage and out of their lives? That's the question I've been asking myself lately. I recently made my presence known to the organizers of my ten year high school reunion and now the question before me is should I go to this event or not. I'm really torn on this, on the one hand, I haven't seen any of these people in ten years, so why is it so important to try and resurrect the relationship, while on the other, I am quite curious about them and where they've ended up in their lives. The only person from my graduating class that I'm still in contact with is the amazing and talented M. I feel fairly confident that she will not be appearing at this little shindig, but I'm sure would be interested in some of the gossip I could bring back.
Something to remember: When I walked across that stage and got my diploma, my car was already packed and I was only a few hours from beginning the adventure that has become my life. I went to a post-graduation party and when I left, I said good-bye. A couple of people at that party realized I meant good-bye versus I'll see you later and wished me luck on my travels. I think that part of me just wants to reconnect with a past that I walked away from so very long ago and see if I can look at it with a little less jaded viewpoint. I'm sure that part of it is just me wanting to do the whole "prodigal son returns" thing and be able to show off how successful I've been in my time since I've left. I've got such a great life, a beautiful amazing wife, a good job with better prospects on the horizon, an amazing town I call home, and most of all, wonderful friends that I love very much. I'm not sure where I've been going with this post, but I guess I just want some feedback from the people that I trust the most and see if some sort of consensus can be reached on what to do.
posted by Big K @ 10:03 AM
4 Comments:
Ah, that is the question of the day, isn't it? I wish I had some advice for you, Big K, but I am struggling with the same issue myself. The distance alone is enough to deter me from even thinking about attending, but at the same time, I do wonder what it would be like. And, as you are the only person from RHS '96 that I still talk to, it would be cool to actually see your face. Thankfully, I think my employer's vacation policy will curtail any plans I may try to make. But if you do end up going, I would be interested to hear any details you would care to share. Either way, though, I am sure you will make the choice that is best for you. Good luck, my friend.
I made the choice at my 5 year by comeing up with 10 people that I might want to see again. I finally came up with 10 annd went, only to have 1 of them show. Get ahold of the organizer and see if anyone you want to see has RSVP'ed. Don't go with the idea you are going to "show off", it just makes everyone have the "one-up" attitude. Be yourself, you are special just as you are! If you need a place to crash we always have the room! Love to you both- Chlo-bo.
I think that since you are going to be intown anyway, you should stop by. Who knows who may show up. Maybe you'd see Fred or aome other person who used to be a good friend that you haven't seen since graduation. Of course, I think MLF should go too, but that is for selfish reasons. I would love it if she came to the wedding the week before and then since she'd be around, she could go with you to the reunion. WHat do you say, MLF?! It is Aug. 5 in Cedar Rapids.
Anyway, Love you Kev,
Katie
I would say go. If I had heard anything around a 10 year reunion, I would have went. If you are have not having a good time, there is nothing to stop you from just standing up and walking out.
We did not go to my wife's, but part of that had to do with the fact that there was nobody she wanted to see, and part had to do with the $100+ charge.
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